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Here’s 10 things happy people don’t care for.

1. AGE
Indeed, age is just a number. And happy people know this for sure.

They don’t let this ever-increasing number define who they are and what they do.  They just do whatever it is they want!

Life is short. Before you know it, age catches up. You might as well make full use of life before your body actually reflects your age.

On a more candid note, I know of friends who are happy because they date people younger than them. They actually found true love despite the age gap.

2. CARING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK OR SAY
This is one of the biggest blocks to our happiness.

Happy people don’t care for that. They recognise that the words of others are never accurate and should never judge them for who they are and what they’re capable of.

Instead, they block it out. They don’t allow such false illusions to get in the way of what it is they want to do or how they feel. Only what they think of themselves matter.

3. JOBS
That’s not to say happy people are unemployed.

The key idea is: You’re not your job.

Sure, a job is important for stability and survival in today’s society. But other than that, your job scope and status at work should be left at the office. If you don’t, it’s going to seep into your everyday life and you’d end up feeling tired, bored or stressed out.

What matters more is your talent, passion and outlook on life. Allowing your job to take over any of that would only mean you’re allowing a label to define who you are.

4. FEAR
Fear is not real. Happy people know that.

With that, they know that the nervousness and anxiety that supposedly comes with fear are not real. They block it out, get out of their comfort zone, feel a little crazy and just do what they want anyway.

There’s just no point holding back in life just because you feel a little scared.

5. THE NEGATIVE STATE OF THE WORLD
There’s a lot of disturbing stuff going on out there. War, protests, riots, animals going extinct or innocent people having bad things happen to them.

Happy people don’t deny any of these, but they do a good job in making sure it doesn’t affect how they feel.

The happiest people I know simply focus on trying to make the world a better place, one small step at a time. They may not be able to create a revolution overnight, but they know that by showing a little kindness and compassion to our fellow man, the world is that much more positive already.

Don’t let the negative in life get to you. It’s not your fault others have made it this way.

6. TOXIC PEOPLE
“You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with”.

Brilliant quote.

Ever had to deal with an annoying friend or somebody who’s just really self-destructive?

Dump them. It’s time to create a positive environment for yourself.

Happy people gain happiness from the people they are with and not just from within. This is an amazing life hack that most people overlook. If you’re feeling unhappy, take a look around. Sometimes it’s the people that are just dragging you down.

7. THE PAST OR THE FUTURE
The past does not exist, neither does the future.

If you want to be happy, you’ve got to let go of the past and move on with life. Learn from it and grow from it, then make sure you don’t repeat the same mistakes.

As for the future, happy people pretty much let go of expectations. .

When you let go of the past and future, then you can truly enjoy the present.

8. EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN
Start doing things for the sake of doing things. Help others for the sake of being compassionate. The true reward is knowing that you’ve added positivity in others.

Happy people let go of always wanting something in return. That’s how they never get disappointed.

9. COMPLAINING
Complaining is the result of an unhappy life. Sometimes things don’t go your way. You can’t escape that.

But complaining is useless. Happy people know that. They’re instead, grateful for what they have and then they try to find the solution with a positive mindset.

10. CONFORMING TO SOCIETY’S STANDARDS
Just like age, there’re a lot of labels out there that try to define who we are. Expectations are always thrown at us and it can be pretty overwhelming at times.

Happy people don’t care for any of that. They take time their time. They look within and do what they want in life.

This is how happiness is created: Not doing things you don’t care for.

By DrJelena Rudic

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Resilience

Resilience is the Corporate Buzz word! Here’s our top 10 tips to building resilience.

Tip#1: Develop and Optimistic Point of View.
Think about what’s possible as opposed to what you can’t do. Optimists are naturally resilient even in the face of adversity as they know something better will come from a challenging situation or experience.

Tip#2: Use positive language.
The language we use effects our Physiology and how we feel about ourselves and others.

Tip#3: Be Altruistic.
Develop a compassion to serve that is greater than the compulsion to survive (J Parker). Serving others makes us feel good about ourselves.

Tip #4: Get firm on your values.
Have a clear idea of what you value in life and make decisions based on your values.

Tip #5. Use Humour
Lighten up your approach. It’s good for your happy hormones and helps build resilience.

Tip#6: Develop strong social connections.
Having a sense of belonging to a group or team gives us a feeling of support and emotional resilience.

Tip#7:Get a Mentor.
Find someone who has travelled the path and can be your sound board. They help keep you accountable to your goals and moving forward in life.

Tip#8: Be clear on your purpose.
If your mission is clear, you will see that the little bumps in the road are just part of getting you to your destination.

Tip#9: Meditate, Eat Well and Exercise
I don’t think anyone can question the importance of these 3 things. Most importantly they influence our energy and therefore how well we function in life.

Tip#10: Look after your spine and nervous system.
It’s the system that controls every cell, tissue and organ in the body. Your ability to adapt to stress and the environment is co-ordinated by the nervous system.

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HABITS OF THE HEALTHIEST PEOPLE IN THE WORLD

If you follow the lifestyle habits of the average Australian, you will be living the life of probability.  Expect 1 or 2 chronic illnesses and a declining quality of life with age.

At CHIRO H3 we believe in the life of Possibility.  Improved quality of life and wellbeing with age.  By following the habits of the healthiest people in the world, this is entirely possible for you and your family.

We have summarized below, following years of research and data collected over many countries such as Greece, Italy, Finland and Sweden, where over 35% of the populations live to 100 (compared to 10% in rest of world), the top 10 habits of the healthiest people in the world

 

1.HEALTHY SPINE AND NERVOUS SYSTEM

-With your Nervous System controlling every cell, tissue and organ in your body, it stands to reason you should take very good care of it.

 

2.EXERCISE

-the health benefits of regular exercise and physical activity are hard to ignore.  From weight control, improved mood, boosting energy, better sleep, reducing illness and health conditions.

 

3.WORK ON FLEXIBILITY and CORE STRENGTH

-the greater our strength, stability and flexibility, the more adaptive we are to the stress we place on our body.

 

4.DRINK WATER

-with your body made up of 80% water, it stands to reason, that water should be our main source of hydration.  Other liquids such as tea, alcohol, and juice, should be consumed in moderation.

 

5.EAT REAL FOOD

-Give your body the fuel it requires to express the greatest of health.  A diet primarily made up of whole, plant based foods, good fats and oils, organic grass feed meat and fresh fish is desirable.  Avoid processed and packaged food as much as possible.

 

6.MEDITATION/MINDFULNESS

-The benefits of Meditation are numerous including de-stressing the nervous system, improved sleep quality, increased immunity and improved metabolism, reduce ageing and it makes your happier.

 

7.STRONG PSYCHOSOCIAL CONNECTIONS

-Social relationships, both quantity and quality—affect mental health, health behavior, physical health, and mortality risk.  You will be the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with, so choose your friends wisely.

 

8.SENSE OF PURPOSE

-Finding a direction for your life and setting overarching goals for what you want to achieve can help you actually live longer.  The purpose should focus on benefiting others rather than yourself.

 

9.WORK LIFE BALANCE

-Don’t get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life!  Success in your professional life affords you opportunities in your personal life.

 

10.INVEST IN HEALTH

-The healthiest people in the world recognize Health as their greatest asset in life and are prepared to invest their time, energy and money into it.  Your level of health directly relates to how happy you are.

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